The first few days of the new year have been illuminating. The past year and a half has been a difficult time for me and my family. But as I sit here and reflect, I can’t help but smile. I am healthy, happy and grateful for my many blessings. I have supportive friends and family whom love me unconditionally. My children are amazing unique individuals who enlighten me with their courage, strength and wisdom daily. I am learning that happiness is an emotion you choose for yourself and your well-being. How many of us have said ,”I will be happy and confident. When I lose the weight, I gained. Or when I get that job, I want. When that guy/girl notices me, and asks me out. Then I will truly be happy.” But the few examples, I described are future goals that require a plan and some time to achieve. What about here and now?! This year, I am committed to look for something positive in each day. Even if some days I have to look a bit harder. I encourage you to be thankful for what you are now! And keep fighting for, who you want to be tomorrow. You have the freedom and power to create the life you desire. No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow the progress. You are still way ahead of everyone that isn’t trying. The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts. Believe in yourself and you will be unstoppable. Lastly, smile it is the prettiest thing you will ever wear. #prettymess